Command Your Mind. Create Your Life. Conquer The World.

I build invincible entrepreneurs.

How Do You Want to Live?

You know in your gut there’s MORE out there for you than how you’ve been living. Your only option is to get uncomfortable and commit to building life YOUR way.

If you’re tired of feeling like you don’t quite fit in with all of “the successful” people, always doing more because you don’t feel “good enough”, and reaching your breaking point, we need to talk.

I’m tired of watching GREAT people hold back from making their impact! The world needs YOU!

When you find the courage to live life on the edge, you’ll watch your world open up… opportunities, experiences, happiness…they’ll all be yours for the taking!



Your ultimate success requires stretching yourself. Mentally, physically, emotionally.

Escape on an adventure retreat with Tami to see what you’re capable of, disconnect from your every day demands, and rediscover who you’re meant to be.


Building a Marine mindset is required for you to shatter self-doubt. Stop holding back and take a chance on YOU.

Elite online training to accelerate your results. Start living the life you’re secretly craving without giving up your health and success.


Living committed to your best life possible takes hard work and discipline. Every risk, every fear, every step you conquer makes the rewards all worth while.

Private consulting and mentorship for professionals and entrepreneurs who are ready to up their game.

Hi, I’m Tami!

From the Marine Corps to Mentor, I know what courage, confidence, and commitment it takes to keep driving to make YOUR life and the lives of the people around you BETTER.

With my military background, 20 years in corporate IT, online entrepreneurship, and decades of personal development, it’s rare to find an expert to encompass such a diverse playing field.

My passion for health and fitness, dedication to service through charity, and travels around the world result in a vibrant life well lived.

I support driven entrepreneurs and professionals who are ready to up their game…personally, mentally, professionally… and need a little help to take it to the next level.

My motto: Lead by Lifestyle!

Explore What Life Could Be

Villa in Belize | DestinationYOU Adventure Retreat | Tami McVay - Business & Lifestyle Strategist | Mentor

Adventures like no other!

Everyone wants to be a Marine for a day (or a Navy Seal, Army Ranger, Captain America, Wonder pick your superhero!)

You know you have more strength buried within you. The question is...HOW do you draw that out??

You’ve always wanted to do something unique…adventurous…exciting… I got you!

I'm building a strong army of people who live life with a positive vengeance. People with a calm confidence, ready for anything, making an impact and having FUN while we're at it!

Tami's exclusive One-of-a-Kind experiences are meant to challenge and invigorate you in a whole new way...

Live Differently

Imagine having the courage to go against the “norm”, the confidence to ask for what you want, and the commitment to see it through.

Successful people do this EVERY day.

Why NOT You?

It is absolutely a game changing experience when working with you.

You are dedicated to your person/people and are invested in their win. That is huge! 
I gained a deeper and better understanding of time management which is awesome for me. I also liked the self-confidence boost I was able to achieve. 
I love being able to be myself and you make people feel very comfortable with being who you are. The way you present your material is so easy to understand - it's real and it's applicable.
Laura W.

CEO and Owner, Advanced Medical House Calls and Dementia Care Academy

Jump Start Your Journey

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Rise and Contribute!

Rise and Contribute!

I received a message from a guy who asked "what happens if everyone around you gets pissed that you want more for your life?" My first thought was 'Get new people!', but answered with a little more tact. 😉 After giving his question some consideration, I told him the...

Forget how to feel?

Forget how to feel?

Have you ever gotten a promotion and then over time realized that the new role sucked? I have. And it's not a good feeling. If you step back down, you feel like a failure (even if that's not the case). So you grind it out feeling resentful until a new opportunity...

Tami changed the way that I look at life and gave me the courage to step into the unknown.

I can not say enough about Tami and her fantastic coaching skills and her heart to help others reach their goals and stay focused on their desires!!!

Tami helped me dig deep and find what really lights the fire of my soul desires. She helped me with tools that I had no idea were what I needed.

Thank you, Tami for believing in me, seeing my potential and reminding me that I can do anything in this lifetime and it doesn’t have to be that difficult.

Tawnja M.

Oroville, CA

You have a lot of great ideas and strategy about working out, tech, business and life.

I love your enthusiasm and knowledge. You know what you’re talking about! I love talking to you and feeling motivated. You are organized, resourceful and knowledgeable. Also friendly and practical.

People should know that you’re a no-nonsense, get to the bottom of things kind of person with great ideas and tons of practical knowledge. And you’re awesome!

Renee F.

Chicago, IL, Dating Coach and Owner, Renee Suzanne Coaching

Tami was the compass I needed to help me regroup & recalibrate then choose a direction(s) I wanted to pursue, with personalization & authenticity.

Tami brought a new perspective to my life in a time I needed it the most. I was spinning my wheels, fresh out of a relationship break-up, unhappy in my job, in a bit of a personal fog and having lost track of what purpose I was bringing to my life.

I’m still in massive disbelief I have landed my DREAM job and cannot thank Tami enough for challenging me to not only see my value in both IT and the coaching worlds, but to actually believe in it. This concept alone has improved my wellbeing & self-confidence incredibly. Tami is amazing!

Keri M.

Vancouver, BC, IT Director and Owner of , Avid Earthling